The Fellowship Community – Men’s Retreats

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We’re told the future belongs to faster thinking. Smarter tools.Sharper competition.More individual optimisation. But that’s not how humans have ever met uncertainty. Our advantage was never information.It was wisdom. Not speed — but sense-making.Not dominance — but creative collaboration.Not noise — but dialogue. When the world became complex, humans didn’t sit still and compete harder.They … Continue reading The Fellowship Community – Men’s Retreats

Jensen Huang of NVIDIA says it plainly:

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'the smartest people aren’t just the most technical. They’re the ones with foresight, wisdom, and empathy.' That’s exactly what we train for on The Fellowship men’s retreat. Not through slides or performance theatre — but through peak states, long walks outdoors, nature, and deep dialogue. The way Socrates and Aristotle actually did philosophy: walking, questioning, sensing, … Continue reading Jensen Huang of NVIDIA says it plainly:

✨ Reconnecting Clarity in an Overloaded World âś¨

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Human nervous systems evolved for villages, not global firehoses. Yet today, we absorb the whole world before breakfast. War. Disaster. Collapse. Injustice. Suffering. The anterior cingulate cortex doesn’t experience this as neutral information. It experiences it as threat. So attention narrows. Habits tighten. Possibility contracts. Not because we are failing, but because biology is trying … Continue reading ✨ Reconnecting Clarity in an Overloaded World âś¨

“Leadership is not scarce. Our systems just make it so.”

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Most of us were trained to behave like widgets. -Stay in lane. -Wait for permission. -Optimise your function. But humans are not components. We are sensing, creative, relational, meaning-seeking beings. That’s why working in Dynamic Self-Organising Teams (D-SOTs) feels so different. Because in D-SOTs: -Leadership circulates. -Intelligence is shared. -Responsibility is human again. -And something … Continue reading “Leadership is not scarce. Our systems just make it so.”

đź’š Planting for the Future: Generational Generosity in Action đźŚ±

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đź’šYesterday, I witnessed something quietly beautiful.đź’š As part of the Stoic Pilgrim Fellowship, we live by a Field Manual of 12 principles — ethical anchors for how we move, think, and act. One of them is Generational Generosity: the idea that our actions today should benefit those who will come after us. A small group … Continue reading đź’š Planting for the Future: Generational Generosity in Action đźŚ±

When Obedience Becomes the Problem

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Men have spent centuries being shaped for obedience. Empires, institutions, and markets all depend on men who follow orders without asking too many questions. Over time, this obedience becomes confused with virtue. But the kind of personalities most comfortable issuing such orders are rarely the wisest. Modern psychology identifies a cluster of traits — the … Continue reading When Obedience Becomes the Problem

🌲The Fellowship: Why Men Need Each Other Now More Than Ever… đź”Ą

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We’re living through fast, uncertain, disorienting times. And one of the most damaging myths of the modern world is that a man should walk the path alone — that silence is strength, and self-reliance is the pinnacle of maturity. But our ancestors knew a different truth: They circled. They shared food, fire, fear, stories and … Continue reading 🌲The Fellowship: Why Men Need Each Other Now More Than Ever… đź”Ą

đź’­ The Delusions We’re Sold — and the Courage to See Through Them

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We’re all bombarded daily with delusions — shiny stories dressed as truth. +That the system’s fine. +That billionaires with tech will save us. +That comfort equals safety. +That scrolling is connection. But beneath the noise, something quieter calls — a chance to see clearly again. That’s what The Fellowship is about. It’s not a self-help … Continue reading đź’­ The Delusions We’re Sold — and the Courage to See Through Them

✨ A Gift Forward — The Fellowship Retreat 25-26th November

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One of the men booked onto The Fellowship can no longer attend due to work commitments — but instead of cancelling, he’s chosen to pay his place forward. A simple act, but a rare one. A gesture of compassion, generosity, and belief in something bigger than himself. In a world that often tells us to … Continue reading ✨ A Gift Forward — The Fellowship Retreat 25-26th November

Fancy Walking Back to Wisdom? … There’s one place left!

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“Wisdom Walking Retreat" Wisdom Walks: Rediscovering the Ancient Rhythm Across cultures, men have stepped away from society to walk together in wild places — Hadza hunters, San trackers, Aboriginal elders, and Inuit explorers. These weren’t just journeys for food or survival, but for wisdom. When we walk and talk in nature, something shifts. Hierarchies dissolve. … Continue reading Fancy Walking Back to Wisdom? … There’s one place left!